modern idea of individualism and personal responsibility

I feel as though society’s idea of individualism and personal responsibility runs side by side with one another. Some of us care for others and some of us do not care until someone’s bull crap intervenes in ones life and start having an effect on that particular person life. Society feel that as long as you are doing you that is totally fine and as long as I do me that is fine as well. It is my personal responsibility to (or whoever is involved at the time) to make sure that what ever it is that I choose to do not intervene or disrupts the next person life or rights. Once my life or ignorance disrupts someone else’s life then the problem exists. Individualism and personal responsibility goes together.